Not sure what to expect at a Mormon funeral? This guide breaks down LDS burial customs and etiquette so you can attend with confidence and respect.
Mormon Burial Traditions & Funeral Etiquette
Funerals in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (often still called Mormon funerals) are built around faith, family, and hope. They’re meant to honor the person who’s passed, offer comfort to those left behind, and reflect the belief in eternal life. Whether you’re a member or just attending to support a friend, it helps to know a bit about what these services are like.
How Mormons View Death
In the LDS faith, death isn’t seen as the end. It’s more like the next step in a much longer journey. There’s a strong belief in resurrection and eternal families—so while there’s still sadness, there’s also a lot of hope. That tone often comes through in the funeral itself.
What Usually Happens at an LDS Funeral & Guidelines
Here’s what you can expect at a typical Mormon funeral:
- Viewing or Visitation – Before the service, there’s usually a time for people to stop by, see the family, and pay their respects. It might be at a funeral home or at the church.
- The Funeral Service – Most take place in an LDS chapel and are led by a bishop. There’ll be prayers, hymns, and a few speakers—usually family members—sharing stories, memories, and spiritual thoughts.
- The Burial and Dedication of the Grave – After the service, the family heads to the cemetery for a short graveside prayer. A male family member (or another priesthood holder) usually offers that prayer.
- Cremation or Casket Burial – Burial is more common, but cremation is allowed and becoming a bit more common, depending on family preference.
What to Wear and How to Act at a Mormon Funeral
If you’re attending and not sure what’s expected, here are some general tips:
- Dress Modestly – For men, that usually means a suit or a dress shirt and tie. For women, a knee-length dress or skirt is typical. Just aim for modest and respectful—nothing too flashy or casual.
- Be Respectful During the Service – It’s a religious event, so it’s usually quiet and reverent. You’ll hear hymns, prayers, and talks. There’s no clapping or big emotional displays—it’s more subdued.
- Offering Condolences – Flowers and cards are always appreciated. A simple, kind word to the family goes a long way.
- Can You Participate? – Yes, anyone can attend. Just know that some parts of the service are specific to members of the church. Still, guests are very welcome.
How Mormon Funerals Are Different From Other Funerals
LDS funerals might feel familiar in structure—especially if you’ve been to a Christian service—but the tone is a bit different. There’s grief, of course, but also a lot of focus on the next life and being reunited with loved ones. It’s less about final goodbyes and more about “we’ll see each other again.”
A Simple Way to Show Respect
You don’t need to do anything fancy to support someone at an LDS funeral. Just show up, dress appropriately, and be kind. That alone means a lot. Mormon funerals are about remembering the person, supporting each other, and holding onto the hope of what’s next. Whether you’re part of the faith or not, your presence shows that you care—and that’s always appreciated.
