When “Sorry for your loss” feels too routine, use these 30 genuine sympathy phrases—grouped by tone—to offer comfort, empathy, and solace to grieving friends and family.
How To Say Sorry For Your Loss & What To Say Instead
It’s never easy to know what to say when someone we care about is hurting. The phrase “Sorry for your loss” often comes first to mind—but it can feel flat or impersonal. Here are thirty more heartfelt opens and closings you can lean on, whether you’re writing a card, sending a text, or speaking in person.
Gentle Expressions of Sympathy
- My heart goes out to you.
- You have my deepest sympathies.
- I’m thinking of you during this difficult time.
- You’re in my thoughts and prayers.
- I’m holding you close in my heart.
Acknowledging Their Pain
- I can’t imagine what you’re going through.
- My heart aches for you.
- I’m so saddened to hear this news.
- I wish I had the right words.
- I’m here for whatever you need.
Offering Support
- Please let me know how I can help.
- I’m here to listen anytime.
- I’d like to bring you a meal or help with errands.
- Call me if you need company or a shoulder to lean on.
- I’m just a text or call away.
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Sharing a Memory or Tribute
- I’ll always remember [Name]’s kindness.
- [Name] brought so much joy to everyone.
- I’ll never forget the laughter we shared with [Name].
- Your [mom, dad, partner] was such a gift to all of us.
- [Name]’s memory will live on in our hearts.
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Spiritual and Reflective Comfort
- May you find peace in the memories you shared.
- May [Name]’s spirit shine on in your life.
- May you feel [Name]’s love surrounding you.
- May your cherished memories bring you comfort.
- May you find strength in the love around you.
Short & Simple
- Thinking of you.
- With heartfelt condolences.
- Wishing you peace and comfort.
- My deepest sympathy.
- Sending you love and strength.
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Whether you borrow one of these lines or mix and match, the most important thing is that your words come from the heart. A sincere opening and a warm closing can remind someone in pain that they’re not alone—and that you truly care.
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