You know, putting together an obituary isn’t exactly anyone’s idea of a good time—but it can actually be a gentle way to honor someone you care about. In this Everis guide, you’ll find ready-to-use templates, real-life samples, and a few thoughtful tips to help you craft something meaningful, even when words feel hard to find.
How to Write an Obituary
A warm, straightforward roadmap for honoring a life in writing
At Everis, we get it: when someone you love is gone, finding the right words can feel overwhelming. An obituary isn’t just a bulleted list—it’s a snapshot of a person’s spirit, shared with love, sincerity, and maybe even a touch of memory.
Whether you’re organizing a virtual farewell, arranging a simple direct cremation, or just letting friends and family know, we’ll help you find language that feels honest, uplifting, and—dare we say—comforting.
This guide includes:
- A simple, easy-to-follow obituary structure
- Fill-in-the-blank templates you can tweak
- Sample notices for different relationships (from mom to lifelong buddy)
- Practical pointers for posting online or submitting to print
What Is an Obituary—and What Goes Into One?
Think of an obituary as a brief announcement that also celebrates a life. No two are exactly alike, but most will touch on:
- Full name, plus birth and death dates
- Age at passing (if you’re comfortable including it)
- Hometown or last place of residence
- Close family members—those who survive and those who went before
- Service or gathering details (location, date, time)
- (Optional) A few personal notes: cause of death, favorite hobbies, proud achievements, or where people can send flowers or donations
These days, many families even add a photo, a favorite quote, or a link to a short video—just to give that extra personal touch.
A Straightforward Obituary Template
If staring at a blank page has you stuck, start with something like this, then sprinkle in whatever made your loved one unique:
[Full Name], age [Age], of [City, State], passed away peacefully on [Date]. They were preceded in death by [Names] and are survived by [Names].
You can follow that with a sentence or two about hobbies (an avid gardener…), a career highlight (taught for 30 years…), or a personal trait (always ready with a joke…).
Short Obituary Templates for Common Scenarios
Funeral Announcement
[Full Name] of [City] passed on [Date]. A service will be held at [Location] on [Date] at [Time]. They are survived by [Names].
Private Ceremony
We sorrowfully share that [Name], age [Age], passed away on [Date]. A private gathering will be held with family and close friends.
No Formal Service
In keeping with [First Name]’s wishes, there will be no public service. [They] passed peacefully on [Date] in [Location].
In Lieu of Flowers
In memory of [Full Name], who departed on [Date], donations may be made to [Charity], a cause dear to [Their] heart.
Details Pending
We are saddened to announce the passing of [Name] on [Date]. Service details will be shared once arrangements are finalized.
Ash-Scattering Ceremony
[Full Name], born [DOB] and gone on [DOD], will be honored with an ash-scattering at [Location] on [Date].
Celebration of Life
Join us in celebrating [First Name]’s vibrant spirit on [Date] at [Location]. Feel free to wear something bright—in memory of a life lived in color.
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Simple Obituary Examples
Community Champion
Our community mourns the loss of [Name], a tireless advocate for [Cause]. [First Name]’s passion touched so many. A celebration of life will be held on [Date] at [Location]. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to [Organization].
Dear Child
Our beloved [Name] left us too soon on [Date]. Known for [one or two personal traits], [First Name] brought joy wherever [they] went. Contributions in [their] memory may be directed to [Charity].
Life-Long Friend
We remember [Name] with love and gratitude. A friend to many, [First Name] passed on [Date]. Please join us at [Location] on [Date] to share stories and memories.
Beloved Mother
Our mother, [Name], left this world on [Date] at the age of [Age]. She filled our days with kindness, laughter, and that famous Sunday dinner. A service will be held on [Date] at [Location].
Cherished Father
With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of [Name] on [Date]. A quiet soul but generous spirit, he will be remembered for his wisdom and warmth. A memorial service is planned for [Date] at [Location].
Tips for Printing and Posting Online
- Word Counts: Newspapers often cap obituaries at 100–250 words.
- Double-Check Everything: Dates, spellings, times—don’t let typos slip through.
- Contact Info: Include a phone number or link to your digital memorial page.
- Digital Tributes: With Everis, you can publish online and invite loved ones to share photos and messages.
Obituary vs. Eulogy
An obituary is a concise public notice—perfect for newspapers or websites. A eulogy is longer, more personal, and delivered at the service. Need help with a eulogy? Everis is here for that, too.
Final Thoughts
Writing an obituary never feels “easy,” but it doesn’t have to be perfect. It’s about sharing something honest—no one expects Shakespeare. Whether you’re planning a virtual service, a direct cremation, or simply sending a note to friends, Everis can help you find the right words.
FAQs
How long should an obituary be?
Around 100–250 words for print; feel free to be more detailed online.
Can I add humor or personal stories?
Absolutely—if it reflects who your loved one was, it’ll make the tribute all the more special.
What if I’m stuck for words?
Start with the basics (name, dates), then add one or two personal details—something they loved or a favorite pastime.
Does Everis support digital memorials?
Yes! Every Everis plan includes an online tribute page where friends and family can post memories, photos, and messages.
Contact Everis 24/7 for immediate support with cremation services, prepaid complete cremation services, memorial trees, eco-friendly memorial services, transparent pricing, or questions about affordable cremation options.
See also:
12 Obituary Examples for a Father
12 Obituary Examples for a Brother
12 Obituary Examples for a Sister
12 Obituary Examples for a Mother
See also: How to Find Out If Someone Died With An Obituary or What Is An Obituary, Who Writes It & How Do They Work?
